Post-Nut Clarity Q: I don’t have any trouble reaching orgasm, but every time I do, I feel that stereotypical “post-nut clarity”—usually in the form of shame or embarrassment or “what am I doing here?” It happens whether I’m … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Physical Or Mental Discomfort & Sex
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Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Shifting Orgasms
Changing The Way I Cum Q: Ever since I started masturbating, I’ve done it on my stomach, grinding against the bed or a pillow, with my legs locked. It works—but unfortunately it's also the only way I can cum. As you can … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Shifting Orgasms
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: When Sex Becomes Methodical
A Little Help In The Bedroom Q: My girlfriend takes a long time to cum—like, a lot longer than I do. In the beginning of our relationship, this meant we took the time to have really long, sensuous sex sessions where she had the … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: When Sex Becomes Methodical
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: What’s That Feeling?
What’s That Feeling? Q: I’m a woman and occasionally, when I’m having sex with a guy, it feels like I need to pee. It’s not every time or with every guy, and I hadn’t felt it in a while. Recently, I started seeing someone new … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: What’s That Feeling?
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Anal Play
Orgasming During Anal Q: Hi Dr. Laurie. Recently, my husband and I introduced anal play to our sex life. I normally only have an orgasm from clitoral play, so I was reluctant at first, but over time I’ve warmed up to it. … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Anal Play
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Am I Doing This Right?
Condoms Breaking Q: The condoms keep breaking when I have sex, but I am using them correctly. Can you help? … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Am I Doing This Right?
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Listening To Your Body
How To Know If You’ve Had An Orgasm Q: I want to be able to let go & know myself and my body to my own benefit, and to a future partner’s benefit—because otherwise, I’m taking my own sexuality basically off the table. … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Listening To Your Body
Six Ways Women Can Increase Their Ability To Orgasm
When being intimate, the main focus of sex should be about enjoying the journey, focusing on the pleasure, and not being concerned about the performance. Of course, having an orgasm is definitely an important part too, especially … [Read more...] about Six Ways Women Can Increase Their Ability To Orgasm
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Early Ejaculation
Lasting Longer Naturally Q: Hi, I'm a 21-year-old guy and every time I have sex I seem to only last five minutes, or, if I’m lucky, 10 minutes. I get hard not too long after, but I would much rather last 10 to 20 minutes than … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Early Ejaculation
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Getting To The Finish Line
Trouble Staying Erect Q: I’m a female and my boyfriend of 15 years has an issue with staying erect during sex, even oral, anal, or vaginal. I don’t get it. We have great sex and I’m down for anything. We use toys and porn, or … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Getting To The Finish Line
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Big Answers For Big Questions
Sex After Prostate Cancer Q: I have had prostate cancer surgery. I'm 61 years young, but I don't feel like I'm a man anymore. Tablets hardly ever work. I look at your site. It’s been four years since I’ve had sex and I’m slowly … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Big Answers For Big Questions
The Pressure Of Time On Sexual Pleasure And Orgasm
Good sex takes time. When we are in the mindset that time is money, then we can become pressured to have things done as quickly as possible. In our desire to create pleasure quickly we may find ourselves fixated on and moving … [Read more...] about The Pressure Of Time On Sexual Pleasure And Orgasm